by MBNAhelp » Thu Jul 05, 2012 10:51 pm
Hi all
Thanks for setting this up
ok my situation
MBNA debt around 12k
about 18 months ago told them i was in financial difficulty, they said sorry can't do anything till you in arrears
kept going paying off what i could then they increased min payments
fell into arrears, made about a 1k payment last year
then went into arrears again
i now am in arrears of about 1.2k
every month i have paid off 110 euros so have never refused to pay
they wrote said given the financial info i gave them i can't pay my debt so they can't freeze payments or put me on a reducded payment
want me to ring them to talk about, i have seen on other forums, that their idea is to say, sure we will put you on reducded payments if you can just clear the arrears, when you do that they then say well if you can cough up that amount you can pay us more.
the stupid thing is they say call and you might be able to do a short settlement, how could i afford that
anyways my questions are
what happens when it goes to debt collection
i am no longer living in ireland but my partner is, so don't want her getting hassled
i also have an ex wife and she knows my address of where i am, so that complicates matters
when it goes to debt collection can i negoiate with them or whats my course of action
thanks so much